You have to ask Mary!

“This tender Mother is animated by such a desire to help everyone, that she is offended not only by those who insult her outright - for there are some, especially among gamblers, who are perverse souls who blaspheme in the excess of their anger and insult this sweet Sovereign - but also by those who do not ask her for any graces.

Not only those who insult you, O Queen, but even those who ask you nothing, sin against you.”

Saint Bonaventure (1221-1274), Mirror of the Blessed Virgin Mary

See also: Marian Encyclopedia